Learning About the Self: Motives for coherence and positivity constrain learning from self-relevant feedback
People learn about themselves from social feedback, but desires for coherence and positivity constrain how feedback is incorporated into the self-concept. We develop a network-based model of the self-concept and embed it in a reinforcement learning framework to provide a mechanistic account of how motivations shape self-learning from feedback. Participants (n = 46) received feedback while self-evaluating on traits drawn from a causal network of trait semantics. Network-defined communities were assigned different likelihoods of positive feedback. Participants learned from positive feedback but dismissed negative feedback, as reflected by asymmetries in computational parameters that represent the incorporation of positive versus negative outcomes. Furthermore, participants were constrained in how they incorporated feedback: self-evaluations changed less for traits more important to coherence of the network. We provide a mechanistic explanation of how motives for coherence and positivity jointly constrain learning about the self from feedback that makes testable predictions for future clinical research.